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Stress at the Mall:
It’s a malady
that tends to strike around holiday time—although it can theoretically
happen at any time of the year. You find yourself in a sea of people
making its way through your local shopping mall. The crush of the
crowd makes you feel claustrophobic. You run from store to store,
vying against other shoppers for your turn at the racks. It seems
as if no store has exactly what you’re looking for.
You hear the strains of carols playing
over and over again on store speakers. The lines at the cash registers
appear to stretch for blocks. When you finally find something to buy,
you get behind someone who has to make a complicated exchange. You
wonder if you’ll get home in time to wrap your gift before the
office Christmas party.
You might not realize it, but even
in the best of times, going to the mall can be a stressful experience.
You can feel as if you’re undergoing sensory overload as you
take in all the sights and sounds around you. There are so many racks
to explore…so many clothes to sift through. Because of the variety
of stores offered in modern malls, you might wonder where to begin
with your shopping. Should you head to the shoe store first—or
to the music store? Which store is offering the best sales? It has
been said that offering an individual too many choices can be just
as—if not more—stressful than only offering a few.
Then, there’s the stress inherent
in dealing with other people. You have other customers to contend
with—customers who can be rude and irritating. You might encounter
clerks who don’t know their jobs well, or don’t care if
their work is done right. You might even run into managers who seem
to care little about the customer’s perspective.
You can deal with mall-related stress
in any number of ways. To begin with, you can purposely avoid the
mall during high-traffic times. You might even consider steering clear
of the mall altogether during holiday time. Instead, you might consider
shopping online, or through catalogues, or by going to specialty shops.
The less you encounter the mall during high-stress times, the more
relaxed your holiday shopping is likely to be.
Another important tactic to consider
is to write down exactly what you need at the mall and keep to the
list. In other words, you should resist the urge to impulse buy. Otherwise,
you might find yourself saddled with shopping bags filled with merchandise
you don’t need and will never use. You could also incur a tremendous
amount of unnecessary debt through “binge buying.”
Also consider limiting the number
of stores you visit at the mall. You shouldn’t feel as if you
need to visit as many stores as is humanly possible on each trip.
If your shopping is completed after browsing through a single store,
simply leave the mall. Otherwise, it’s likely you’ll be
wasting precious time and money.
Don’t be caught off guard by
sales. Some shoppers seem to believe that, just because there’s
a sale going on, they need to buy. The fact is, there will always
be sales. In order to save money, simply consult your local newspaper
in order to scope out the ads of stores having sales in a given week.
That way, you can plan out your shopping adventures ahead of time.
Otherwise, you can find yourself running from sale to sale and store
to store and becoming stressed out in the process.
Going to a mall can be therapeutic.
Store promotions can be fun and can help to take your mind off your
problems. You might enjoy an afternoon makeover or spending a few
minutes testing out easy chairs. And mall shopping can be a necessary
part of life. However, you have to recognize when you’ve hit
your limit. Too much shopping can tax your nerves and can leave you
feeling uneasy. What’s more, you can be left with huge bills
at the end of the month because of your shopping indulgences. As with
most things, mall shopping is best done in moderation. If you shop
only when you need to, chances are you will be removing an important
stressor from your life.
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